Parenting in the first few weeks is SO trying and difficult. You of course knew that babies don’t sleep for very long stretches, and that they developmentally SHOULDN’T.
Not every baby likes to be swaddled, but the majority do. Swaddling works for two reasons. It mimics being in the womb, and It lessens the Moro (Startle) Reflex so that your baby doesn’t startle himself awake.
Babies are smarter than we think. They can start to identify patterns at as little as 6 weeks old. Having a routine will help your baby relax because she will know what is coming next.