My focus was all wrong.
Instead of focusing on making bedtime enjoyable for my child, I was focused on getting my child to sleep fast so that my “me time” could start.
We moms put all of our energy into so many different things throughout the day, that by bedtime, we are exhausted and short-tempered.
This is why it’s so important to create a bedtime routine that is relaxing, and that you and your child will actually look forward to.
Of course you will still rejoice when you finally close the door, or when your child finally closes her eyes and drifts off to sleep, but imagine how much nicer it will be if you don’t dread the bedtime routine.
Before you develop your routine, you should remember two things:
We’ve all done it. I know I have. And as the words are coming out of my mouth, I know that I shouldn’t say it.
Don’t make bedtime a negative thing. Keep it positive.
I have one child who has despised sleep since the day that she was born. She’s finally getting better. She knows the importance of sleep now because I have told her over and over.
Be sure to teach your child about the importance of sleep, how it will help your child to feel happier and recharged.
-And most importantly, include time to connect with your child. This will help your child to drift off to sleep peacefully.
Routines are so important for young children. They thrive on them. If you have a toddler, you might want to incorporate this awesome printable into your routine, that can help her visualize what is going to happen next.
Here is our bedtime routine.
-Brush and floss
-I ask my 5 year old her “question”. I get so much enjoyment out of hearing her answers to these questions, and it’s a keepsake that I will look back on when she’s older. Learn more about this journal here.
-Tell a story. My husband actually started this and my daughter loves it. They tell each other a story. It can sometimes be difficult to come up with a creative story, but I can guarantee that your child will think your story is great anyway.
The story that my husband tells is always about her, and if he is running low on inspiration, he asks her what she wants the story to be about. Then she gets to make up a story to tell us.
Bridget from This Mom Life has a great how-to post about the power of storytelling.
Congratulations, mama. You made it to the time of day that is all about you. And now you should actually be able to enjoy your “me” time because you’re not frazzled and annoyed from fighting with your children at bedtime.
If your child is still having trouble winding down before bed, you can find some great tips here.
What is bedtime like at your house?
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